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"You've heard the saying, 'Men take the light'?" my portrait photography instructor asked.
We all looked confused. He then smiled and showed a few glamor photos of male and female models and celebrities.
The first were of Paul Newman both older and younger. Then he showed us Robert Redford, Sean Connery and Brad Pitt. He asked us about the lighting for each.
There was usually one strong light source that was angular, and maybe a fill light or reflector. We also noticed darker shadows emphasizing the contours of their faces.
We then looked at photos of Marilyn Monroe by Richard Avedon followed by the iconic Farrah Fawcett bikini photo. We ended with photos of Angelina Jolie. He repeated his question about the lighting.
The lighting was subdued and diffused, less angular and more fill lighting from multiple sides. This was true for almost all of the glamor photos for women.
Six years ago I took a photo of my friend Melinda. She is a very sexy beautiful forty something with long red hair. I photographed her in her living room by the big window with my new Hasselblad. When I got the photos back, she looked beautiful because they showed the life in her eyes. She looked at them and was disappointed. "I guess I look that old."
Men can take the light.
Men are allowed to age and show wisdom and sexiness through their aged faces. When you looked into Paul Newman's eye, you saw a handsome man, no matter how old or how wrinkled he was. The shadows just accentuated his manliness. The same goes for Robert Redford, George Clooney, Denzel Washington, and many other handsome men.
Women are not allowed to show their age. Glamor photographers use softening techniques like light diffusers, softening lenses, editing changes, and other tricks to make the women look younger. I have never erased wrinkles, although I have hidden pimples and razor burn a few times. Through all this trickery, we get a silly ideal that all beautiful women look 22 and have absolutely perfect skin. Sadly then, so many women go under the knife and then inject botulism into their faces to keep their youth.
I think Robert Redford is still handsome. Yes, he has wrinkles and sun spots, yet when you look in his eyes, you still see that boy spirit brimming with life. I am saddened that I can only think of a few beautiful older female celebrities that are proud of their age and are sexy as hell, Helen Mirren, Sophia Loren and maybe Madonna. Mirren, 64, still performs nude in some of her movies where she is amazingly sexual and sexy. Sadly though, most female models and celebrities are not allowed to age, so they are forgotten.
UL and Mrs. break this trend by celebrating their age, wisdom, beauty, and sexual attractiveness. When I look at them, I know I am not looking at a twenty year old starlet, I am looking at sexy women that have twinkles in their eyes from erotic histories that makes them even sexier.
Maybe I should be comforted that I know many beautiful older women who are not shunned by celebrity and live among us common folk. They look beautiful whether in soft or harsh light. Sadly popular culture does not see it.
I understand we all want to look good for our portraits. I don't like photos of myself because I've found few people take good ones. Maybe this is the reason I don't like doing formal portrait photography. I love creating honest beauty from the person. Unfortunately, it all goes back to what a female photography instructor said to us, "It is easy to get a pleasing picture of a cute young woman."
So, in this age of celebrity and youth obsession, remember this... "men take the light."
Photo note: I found this sexy photo of Angelina Jolie where she is in harsh light. Good for her and the photographer.
Please also take a moment and look at the quality of lighting for all these photos.
I wonder how much of this phenomenon grows from men's expectations. A lot of guys want women only for their bodies and what they supposedly can do for them; they don't want character in a woman. I'm different because I've always appreciated women of strong character, probably because my mother and elder sisters were and are such women.
ReplyDeleteNow, those Helen Mirren pics show her character lines, and to me that only adds to her beauty and attractiveness. But I wonder how many guys only see the wrinkles and scorn her as too much of an individual for them... And of course they'd never admit this. *lol*
I adore Helen Mirren. She was incredible in "The Roman Spring of Mrs. Stone" in a nude scene a couple years ago. Charlotte Rampling does a nude scene in the French film "Swimming Pool." Another gorgeous 60-something.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this lovely post. It is true - men are allowed to look old and celebrate a lifetime of character. It will be interesting to see the pictures from my shoot on Friday. The photographer used only available light - nothing else - and he doesn't photoshop.
I enjoyed your gallery of pictures here and the commentary. I am half asleep but it was worth propping my eyes open to read you tonight.