3.14.2010

Getting to Know You... Mrs


One of the first blogs I started following was Any Fucking Day.  I could spend all day praising its quality writing and photography.  Both are deeply personal and deeply... deep.  Both can be said for the two creators of it, Z and Mrs.

They are a married couple living in a small US city in the east.  If you read it for awhile, you get to know the two creators as intensely private (for very legitimate reasons) observers and thinkers.  They are a unique team.  Z writes, publishes books, and photographs.  Mrs models and provides a complex presence to the writing, images, and overall existence of the blog .   Together, they make an interesting balance of passion, love, pain, happiness, frustration,  and lust as they work together to create art.

Mrs has always been an intelligent, beautiful, erotic and strong-willed enigma for me as I've followed this excellent blog. While it is easy to recognize Z's influence on the blog through his writing and images he shares, it is a deeply rewarding endeavor to get to know and feel Mrs' aesthetic breath shared in the life of their art.  Through her modeling, mood and visceral presence in every post, I feel their collaboration become a complex mosaic of two very strong minds.


Mrs' modeling is complex.  The first thing I noticed was her erotic beauty of course, but after seeing her modeling in so many different environs, you can feel the silent solitude and private world these two artists share.  You can also sense her emotions, feelings and beliefs, though appearing subtle, are strong and formidable.  Through Z's writing and these images you get to appreciate their never-easy, but damn rewarding, relationship filled with every lustful, creative reward and challenge thrown at them.

I was both honored and excited when Z emailed me telling me Mrs wanted to answer my questionnaire.  I feel it is like getting to touch a rich abstraction that I've started to know through digesting and reflecting on all of their photos and writing.





Here are Mrs' answers to my questionnaire.  I love her direct answers and appreciate her sharing a bit of herself here.

  1. What is your favorite word? Amsterdam
  2. What is your least favorite word? Networking
  3. What turns you on? horses
  4. What turns you off? crowds
  5. What sound or noise do you love? a far away train whistle
  6. What sound or noise do you hate? motorcycle
  7. What is your favorite curse word? fucking asshole
  8. What profession other than your own would you like to attempt? thoroughbred horse industry
  9. What profession would you not like to do? sales
  10. If Heaven exists, what would you like to hear God say when you arrive at the
  11. Pearly Gates? You can return to earth and this time you can have your horse.
  12. What is your idea of perfect happiness? life on a small farm with horses and dogs
  13. What is your greatest fear? death of loved one
  14. Which historical figure do you most identify with? hmmm?
  15. Which living person do you most admire? Barack Obama
  16. What is the trait you most deplore in yourself? fear
  17. What is the trait you most deplore in others? self - admiration
  18. What is your greatest extravagance? I once spent way too much on a pair of shoes
  19. On what occasion do you lie? sick days 
  20. What do you dislike most about your appearance? my scowl
  21. When and where were you happiest? on vacations
  22. If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be? I wish I had the courage not to care what others think
  23. If you could change one thing about your family, what would it be? I always wanted a brother
  24. What do you consider your greatest achievement? my marriage
  25. What is your most treasured possession? our cabin
  26. What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery? serious illness
  27. Who are your heroes in real life? people whose life work is to make the world better for everyone
  28. What is it that you most dislike? self-centeredness
  29. How would you like to die? with gratitude
  30. What is your motto? I hate mottos
Any Fucking Day is a private blog.  Contact Z at mycapote@gmail.com to request an invitation if you are interested in learning more about it.

2 comments:

  1. How beautiful, especially the comment about Mrs' marriage. Thank you for sharing, Mrs!

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  2. Nice post, Karl. Much appreciated.

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